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move on after death

Why do People Think we Move On After Death?

I always wanted an imaginary friend as a child, but my mind wouldn't stretch far enough. I envied kids who…
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avoidance behavior

What is Avoidance Behavior? An Explainer

Our experiences are complex, but for the sake of simplicity, let's break them down into two separate categories - inside…
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Does grief make you tired?

Does Grief Make You Tired?

“When we are tired, we are attacked by ideas we conquered long ago.” ~ Friedrich Nietzche A common question about…
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yearning and searching in grief

Searching and Yearning in Grief

I have a fuzzy memory of being a child at the grocery store with my mother. I was little, probably…
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displacement while grieving

Understanding Displacement While Grieving

Grief is complex. I think we all can agree on this. Grief twists, turns, changes, and evolves. A number of…
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grief feelings grief emotions

What Does Grief Feel Like?

It sounds almost absurd to ask, doesn't it? And yet the moment people experience a loss, one of the first…
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sensory memory grief

I Miss the Sound of Your Voice: Grieving Sensory Memory

I have a baby. She's ten months old. She was a late-in-life baby, so her only siblings—both sisters—are 10 and…
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grief math

"How Old Would She be Now?" and Other Grief Equations

"When will I ever use this?" is a timeless refrain. Kids have been saying it since the invention of geometry. And,…
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What the Newly Bereaved Should Know

Hello to the newly bereaved. I'm sorry to meet you here in the place where loved ones leave you —…
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