Archive for Is this Normal?

Grieving Lost Objects: The Copper Kettle

Jessie Haviland lives in Baltimore, MD with her husband, cat and two dogs. She’s a lover of secondhand shopping, former…
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inability to trust in grief

Experiencing an Inability to Trust After Loss

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  • Eleanor Haley
Well-known developmental psychologists like Erik Erickson and Jean Piaget say that our ability to trust begins to develop in infancy.…
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Grief Without Heroes: Finding Meaning Beyond the Monomyth

One of my favorite grief memoirs is Wave by Sonali Deraniyagala. Fair warning: this is not a book for the…
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normalizing grief

How Normalization and Validation Help in Grief

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  • Eleanor Haley
Do complicated hardships require equally big and complex ways to cope?  Not always, especially not with something like grief. Grief…
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grief dreams

To Perchance Have Grief Dreams

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  • Eleanor Haley
I had the most disturbing dream when my mom was sick. She was sleeping in the big reclining chair that…
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fall is my grief season

Fall is my Grief Season. How about you?

I’m operating under the influence of fall. It’s a subtle disorientation that knocks me off kilter just enough for things…
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anger in grief make you angry

Why Does Grief Make You Angry at Friends and Family?

Reading that title, you might be thinking that there are approximately a zillion reasons grief makes you angry. And you’d…
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Is The Second Year of Grief Harder?

If you're still in the first year after a loss, I imagine the title of this article alone might have…
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why don't i cry when someone dies

Why Don't I Cry When Someone Dies?

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  • Eleanor Haley
If ever there were a time you'd expect to cry, it's after the death of a loved one or other…
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