Archive for Is this Normal?

You Remind Me: People who remind us of our loved ones

Last night I watched ABC's special "The Untold Story of 'The Sound of Music.'" I stopped on the special because I…
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12 Challenges for Grieving Extroverts

A while back, Eleanor wrote a great post on grieving as an introvert. If you missed it, you should check…
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The Utility of Laughter in Times of Grief

Among the kinds of coping you expect to see from a griever, the reaction that seems to surprise people the…
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guilt and grief

Guilt and Grief: coping with the shoulda, woulda, couldas

When my dad died I remember well the intense guilt I had in the months that followed.  Though his death…
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The Myth of the Grief Timeline

How long does it take to fall in love? How many seconds pass before a parent loves their newborn child?…
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anger

All About Anger: The good, the bad, and the self-loathing

I originally intended today’s post to be about forgiveness. You know how sometimes you learn a new word like kerfuffle…
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Avoidance Coping vs. Grief Relief: Taking a Break from Grief

Avoidance Coping vs. Grief Relief: Taking a Break from Grief

I've alluded to the fact that I've been going through a bit of a... ahem... rough patch, This is one…
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Things I wish I knew about grief

64 Things I Wish Someone Had Told Me About Grief

We think about grief a lot around here... We write about types of grief, grief theory, personal reflections, creative expression…
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Introverts and Grief: Exits are to the front and the rear of the funeral home

Introverts and Grief: Exits Are to the Front and Rear of the Funeral Home

You know those emergency exit announcements they make whenever you’re in a crowded place? Ladies and gentlemen, please note the…
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