Redefining 'Okay' After Loss

What does "being okay" after loss mean to you? Not happy or healed, not successful or self-actualized — but okay.…
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The Only Grief Timeline that Matters: Past, Present, and Future

Sometimes I write down thoughts I have about grief so I don’t forget them. They often come to me in…
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Why is the Finality of Death so Hard to Accept?

The finality of death is one of the harshest and most severe realities one must come to terms with after…
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When a Tradition No Longer Feels Right

Many families have a tradition keeper. Typically, it’s an unofficial role. Usually, they aren’t given the title. More often, they…
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It's like they always used to say...

When my daughter was younger, I found a page she had written in her journal that simply read, “Moon, dune,…
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Grief is Not Selfish

Grief is not selfish. This should go without saying, but it doesn't always. Grief may make us more self-focused for…
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The Problem with Quick Judgments - in Grief and Online

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  • Eleanor Haley
I've just made the mistake of reading Facebook comments on a local news article detailing a tragic event that led…
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Grief Seasons, Not Steps: Living and Grieving When There’s No Set Path

In grief - and life in general - we seem to aspire to the idea of forward momentum. We often…
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Grieving Lost Objects: The Copper Kettle

Jessie Haviland lives in Baltimore, MD with her husband, cat and two dogs. She’s a lover of secondhand shopping, former…
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