order chaos

Seeking Order In The Aftermath Of Loss

Eleanor wrote a pretty great post on shattered assumptions about the world after a death, and she described the following…
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Grief and Regrief (aka growing up with a grief monster)

So there‘s this thing called grief.  You’ve probably heard of it.  You probably wish you hadn’t heard of it.  There…
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grieving friend

An Open Letter From A Grieving Friend

Dear close friend who disappeared after someone I love died, Hey there.  It's been a while since we talked, a…
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Grief is More Than Sadness

Grief Is More Than Sadness

There are a lot of things we love about writing a grief blog—but if I had to pick one of…
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Relief After A Death: The Unspoken Grief Emotion

Whenever we ask people about the emotions of grief, whether it is here on the blog, in a workshop, a group,…
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Grief Landscapes

Grief Landscapes

Something VERY exciting happened yesterday. VERY exciting. Maybe not exciting for everyone, but exciting for us.   Yesterday marked Day…
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Where is my Hollywood ending?: When death isn't peaceful, serene, or good

You know I love Hollywood as much as the next person, but I'm beginning to think I can't trust everything…
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Giving Back in Grief

Giving Back In Grief

“We rise by lifting others." Robert Ingersoll There's an endless number of quotes floating around the Internet about the value…
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How Do I Use a Belt Sander & Other Questions for my Dead Dad

How Do I Use A Belt Sander & Other Questions For My (Dead) Dad

You love someone who's died, right? I mean, if you read or follow What's Your Grief, that seems like a…
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